Liberal woman of a certain age do arouse a lot of curiosity, and it's not hard to see why.

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But, they tell themselves they are 'just attracted to younger guys' and they don't dig any deeper than that. Lots of young guys like older guys with big dicks, and good conversation/maturity. But it's unreasonable to believe we, at 40 something, can get ourselves a very young RELIABLE boyfriend. It does happen occasionally, and it isn't always due to money..it's RARE.

Most older guys would do well to think about WHY they are attracted to what they are attracted to.

I'd recently had a fling with a woman of 47 and it had been like a breath of fresh air.

It was fun, exciting, and there had been zero headaches with her.

They come across as confident, alluring and at ease. They often report that they want down to earth and easy-going men to date casually.

This explains why so many younger men are attracted to them. They don't need to be spoiled or wined and dined, as this is what their husbands or ex-husbands did for them.

What exactly is it then, OP, that would interest any of us in one of you?

I can't imagine how a site geared toward the old/young combo would attract anyone other than pervs and golddiggers.

There's no attitude, and people can chat and meet in a safe, friendly environment with no pressure.

This particular niche has also become less of a taboo as society has gradually come to accept that women of a certain age should not be critiqued for wanting to live a little enjoyment in life.

Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.