I'll take them to the grocery store to shop with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and down to the bookstore to buy a book. Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do together, as long as she's with you. She is now hooked more than ever even though she knows I am seeing other people. I have triggered the attraction mechanism and more importantly I know what I did to accomplish that. I know it worked out because I put the proper groundwork in place. ***QUESTION*** Dave, What does it mean when a woman says she wants to "work on herself" before she can have a relationship? I have been getting your emails for about 8 months now I belive and have read your book!***SUCCESS STORY*** David, Just wanted to say that after reading your material, I experienced a mental shift. Sunday I spent the day with a cute girl who had responded to my internet ad. I played the game---didn't act overly sexually interested, just enough.... By turning my sexual advances on and then off-----it really got to her. Thank you for pointing me in the right direction, I am starting to get it!!! MY COMMENTS: The literal translation for this is: "I DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU, BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU WITHOUT HURTING YOUR LITTLE WUSSY BOY GIRLIE FEELINGS." Any of the following: "I need time alone right now." "I need to find me first." "Let's just be friends for now." .. Just yesterday I was in the store looking at CD's and I noticed these two beautiful girls walking around and they would constantly look over towards me.

To answer your question, YES, there's an easy way to get both girls' phone numbers. Then call and ask them BOTH to come join you for a cup of tea. Then, over tea you can decide which one you like more. When I've been in situations where I wasn't actually interacting with a woman and laying on the C&F, they've still been acting attracted to me despite the fact that I consciously did NOTHING in these situations.

I've had friends who have been in similar situations report back that sometimes both women will like you... For example: - A bar/restaurant I hit about once a week has a very hot waitress staff, and one in particular is a Pam Anderson clone who's always being stared at and complimented by all the wussy guys.

She's been working at least a dozen times that I've been in there but has never acted like she even noticed me until the last time (since I've watched the DVDs) and she kept looking at me, over and over again, despite the fact that I did NOTHING different.

Finally I gave her the "wrinkled brow" suspicious look and she got all self-conscious, said "what?

We talked about five more minutes and then I told her I had to go.

She asked me if I wanted her number so we could continue the conversation.

If you want her to think of you as a provider, then just BE ONE. JR - Mexico OK, first of all, I think that you must have some kind of bizarre NUT OBSESSION, dude. But hey, fortunately you're on the right side of the "don't hand them over" equation, so everything seems like it might be all right for you. I am a 34 year old and divorced using your E-book to learn how to get back into the game.

What you haven't quite realized fully yet is that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a woman, all the "normal" rules go away. " Now normally if I were in his shoes and hadn't learned what you taught me... You've given some great examples of how to get an attractive woman's attention, tease her, and play with her to "spark" that initial sexual tension and "chemistry". Since I was raised by my parents to be a nice guy, submissive, wussy, it has been a challenge to overcome these self-destructive traits---but I am gaining ground every day. For the most part I am quiet and reserved----so I have needed to re-train myself in that area also.

The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so I've taken your advice and am using the internet as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice.