So go out there and do your thing, be happy without him (whether him is in the picture or not), and let him be the icing on your perfect cake, rather than the flour, the eggs, the sugar and whatever other ingredients go into making a cake!

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The chase creates the illusion of chemistry, not a real connection.

A man can sense when you’re making him chase you, and if you keep it up you’ll succeed in one thing: chasing him away.

While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.

I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.

Intentionally manipulating a guy or playing games will always backfire because no guy wants to feel like he’s being yanked along on a destination-less journey.

Plus, he’ll be able to see right through what you’re doing and it will come across as desperate, which is the ultimate turnoff.

By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.

And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.

You’re the prize, you’re the catch, you’re the most amazing girl to ever give him the time of day, your time is precious and he will do whatever he has to in order to make sure he gets to stay in your charmed world.